When it comes to SELF CONFIDENCE, or personal power, do you feel great about who you are, embracing your own uniqueness? Or do you experience self-doubt, questioning your self worth and who you are?
Sometimes life, events, the past, or damaged relationships can leave us feeling guilty or ashamed of who we are. We take on responsibility for others, their behavior, and we forget our PERSONAL BOUNDARIES and that we have a CHOICE! We become more focused on being accepted by others. I know this, because in the past, I spent too much time in this dark place. The big question is:
Why do we give up our SELF CONFIDENCE and personal power? Why is SELF WORTH so important? Believing in our self, we are empowered to own our gifts, our uniqueness, and we feel great about being in our own skin.
I would like to share SUCCESS TIP and Thought Habit #3: SELF CONFIDENCE, SELF ESTEEM, AND SELF WORTH!
What keeps us from achieving our SELF WORTH? It is usually one or more the following:
UNMET EXPECTATIONS: We create unrealistic expectations for our life, and we use them to determine our self worth.
THE COMPARISON GAME: We compare the worst version or our self to the best version of someone else unnecessarily.
DAMAGED TRUST: Maybe we have experienced a traumatic event, abuse or someone violated our trust. We can develop feelings of guilt and shame and can have personal boundary issues because of it.
SECRETS: We do things that we keep private. This could be addictions, habits, substance abusive behaviors.
TOO BUSY TO BE: We are addicted to going, going, going. We get busy as a way to escape emptiness, sadness, or current reality.
How can we achieve SELF CONFIDENCE, OWN OUR PERSONAL POWER, AND SELF WORTH? – follow these SECRETS to SUCCESS:
STOP OVERCOMMITTING! Ask yourself: WHEN I SAY NO WHAT DO I SAY YES TO?
ENJOY BEING YOU. Recognize and embrace our value and uniqueness.
BE CONFIDENT. Own our natural talents, abilities, and act free of hesitation, self-doubt or fear.
BE TRUE TO YOURSELF. Remember our life experiences shape our character and define who we are. Own these experiences and allow them to be sources of wisdom.
BE AT PEACE. Release resentment. Be comfortable in our own skin, embrace our ideas and opinions.
SET BOUNDARIES. Set healthy boundaries about whom and where we spend our time. Do the right thing for the right reason!
LET GO AND FORGIVE. Learn from our mistakes and use experiences to create a better stronger person NOW.
SELF CONFIDENCE allows us to release the need to impress and allows us to be real. We take personal responsibility and we are accountable. If you are struggling with the past, damaged trust or self-esteem, having the support of someone else can make all the difference in the world! Hire a Coach! Coaching works!
Knowing you have someone on YOUR team who believes in you can help you grow and move forward in your life and take back ownership of your personal power!
I think of you as a success minded friend and I am so excited and passionate about sharing my mission with you: to work with sales and success driven stars to crush their results so they can live a life of PEACE and leave a life of STRESS – and BE the BEST VERSION of YOU!
I will share my SECRETS of SUCCESS over the next several days. Watch for my posts to learn more!!