Have you ever known or been accused of being a ‘type A’ or an ‘over-achiever?’ I know this is how I used to describe myself. I always felt like I had to ‘do more’ or ‘achieve more’ to be happy! Doing can turn into escape, speaking from experience. I found out that in spite of my belief that this was a great way to be, it has consequences…focused activity is critical to sales and life success – until it becomes an addiction to feel like we are never doing enough.

The #5 KILLER OF SALES CONFIDENCE IS: DOING VS. BEING

What does ‘DOING VS. BEING’ mean, and how does it keep us from achieving our SELF WORTH?

1. DOING VS. BEING: The over-achievement drug. We can end up feeling that if we do more, we will be happy, or make others happy. We can also get addicted to ‘doingness’ to escape our reality that we are sad about – a job, bad relationship, or habits. People may look at us like we are a workaholic, usually because we are!

How can we achieve SELF CONFIDENCE, and move beyond DOING VS BEING? FOCUS ON BEING VS. DOING – BEING IN THE NOW.

1. BEING IN THE NOW: I often ask ‘how do you quiet your mind?’ Do you allow space and time for peace – time that you have nothing on your agenda? Examples are: yoga, exercise, walking, reading, knitting, massage, meditation, being in nature, or sitting in silence. These moments help us re-charge, let go, and also bring us inspiration and intuition.

(SALES)  CONFIDENCE allows us to be content with our own company in silence, without the need to impress anyone.

If you are struggling with being an over-achiever, or are burned out from doing too much, maybe its time to quiet your mind, or get support: having the support of someone else can make all the difference in the world!

Hire a Coach! Coaching works!

Knowing you have someone on YOUR team who believes in you can help you grow and move forward in your life and take back ownership of your personal power!

I think of you as a success minded friend and I am so excited and passionate about sharing my mission with you: to inspire sales and success driven stars to crush their results so they can live a life of PEACE and leave a life of STRESS – AND be the BEST version of THEMSELF at the same time! 

 

 

 


Amy Lemire
Amy Lemire

Amy is a Sales Strategist, Trainer, and Keynote Speaker for over 25 years. Amy has been recognized as a top Fortune 50 sales performer, speaker, facilitator, and international sales trainer. Amy is a Peak Performance Habit Coach certified through the Og Mandino Leadership Group.

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