There have been many times in my life when I felt like I was on top of the world. After I wrote and published my books, ‘From Zero to Sales Hero,’ ‘From Zero to Speaker Hero,’ when I received my Distinguished Toastmaster Award (DTM), and when I was a top sales performer. But there have been other times when I felt like I was at rock bottom. Ending a marriage after 14 years, missing a promotion, financial decisions I made that didn’t serve me in the end. Through building healthy boundaries and looking at my life experiences – the ones that lifted me up and the ones that left me feeling down – one thing I have learned is that there is a choice. I can choose to look at events as good or bad, or I can accept these simply as ‘events’ that I will learn from. I can choose NOT to allow events to leave me feeling worthless – but empowered with wisdom instead.
When it comes to SELF CONFIDENCE, or personal power, do you feel great about who you are? Or do you experience self-doubt, questioning your self worth?
Sometimes life, events, the past, or damaged relationships can leave us feeling guilty or ashamed of who we are. We take on responsibility for others, their behavior, and we forget our PERSONAL BOUNDARIES and that we have a CHOICE! We become more focused on being accepted by others. I know this, because in the past, I spent too much time in this dark place. The big question is:
Why is SELF WORTH so important? Believing in our self, we are empowered to own our gifts, our uniqueness, and we feel great about being in our own skin.
WHY do we give up our SELF CONFIDENCE and personal power?
I would like to share 5 KEYS and 5 KILLERS of Confidence and SELF WORTH! This is a preview – stay tuned for my tips over the next several days…
What keeps us from achieving our SELF WORTH? It is usually one or more the following:
1. UNMET EXPECTATIONS
2. THE COMPARISON GAME
3. DAMAGED TRUST
5. TOO BUSY TO BE – THE WORKAHOLIC, OVER ACHIEVER WITH NO LIFE BALANCE!
How can we achieve SELF CONFIDENCE, OWN OUR PERSONAL POWER, AND SELF WORTH? – follow these SECRETS to SUCCESS:
1. STOP OVERCOMMITTING!
2. ENJOY BEING YOU
3. BE CONFIDENT
4. BE TRUE TO YOURSELF
5. BE AT PEACE
6. SET BOUNDARIES
7. LET GO AND FORGIVE
SELF CONFIDENCE allows us to release the need to impress and allows us to be real. We take personal responsibility and we are accountable.
If you are struggling with the past, damaged trust or self-esteem, having the support of someone else can make all the difference in the world! Hire a Coach! Coaching works!
Knowing you have someone on YOUR team who believes in you can help you grow and move forward in your life and take back ownership of your personal power!
I think of you as a success minded friend and I am so excited and passionate about sharing my mission with you: to work with sales and success driven stars to crush their results so they can live a life of PEACE and leave a life of STRESS – AND be the BEST version of THEMSELF at the same time!
I will send you my 5 KEYS and 5 KILLERS of Self Confidence over the next several days. Watch for my posts to learn more!!