There is something exciting about a breakdown…WHAT?! On the other side of a breakdown is a BREAKTHROUGH!
Change is hard at first, messy in the middle, and glorious at the end!
I often ask: ‘have you ever overcome something – left a job, a relationship, a habit that wasn’t serving you – and look back today, grateful you took the step?’ I know I have: relationships, jobs, getting back into the drivers seat of my life – many times!
Everybody loves a COMEBACK!
How about you? I find that on the other side of resistance (avoiding a change) is FREEDOM!
Are you experiencing SUCCESS or feeling STUCK?
These are the 4 steps to a COMEBACK:
Today I will reveal STEP 2:
DECISION and DATE: Now that we are AWARE that we want to make a change, it is time to make a DECISION and a DATE that we will make the change. In other words, give yourself a DEADLINE! I have done this many times in my life:
A date to give a resignation at a job that was unfulfilling
A date to decide if I am staying or leaving a relationship
A date to change my diet and health habits to lose weight
How can we achieve DECISION and a DATE?
BE REALISTIC: Give yourself time to reflect, quiet your mind and visualize where you want to be.
TAKE INVENTORY: Make a list: what will your life be like if you STAY in the situation you are in, what will life be like if you MOVE AWAY from a situation you are in?
DECIDE: Nothing happens until we decide. Once you DECIDE you will make the change, stick with your decision. You will see things fall into place – AND you will experience PEACE of MIND after you leave INDECISION! Set your DATE! When will you make the change by?
If you are struggling with being stuck, or are burned out, maybe its time to get support: having the support of someone else can make all the difference in the world!
Hire a Coach! Coaching works!
Knowing you have someone on YOUR team who believes in you can help you grow and move forward in your life and take back ownership of your personal power!
I will share my 4 Steps to Starting Your Comeback in the coming days. Watch for my posts to learn more!!